Self-confidence
and self-esteem do not always go hand in hand. In particular, it is possible to be
highly self-confident and yet to have profoundly low self-esteem.
So what is the precise difference
between self-confidence and self-esteem?
To be self-confident is to trust in oneself, in
one’s ability or aptitude to engage successfully or at least adequately with the
world.
A
self-confident person is ready to rise to new challenges, seize
opportunities, deal with difficult situations, and take responsibility if and
when things go wrong.
People
with a healthy self-esteem do not need to prop themselves up with
externals such as income, status, or notoriety, or lean on crutches such as alcohol,
drugs, or sex.
To the contrary, they treat themselves with
respect and take care of their health,
community, and environment.
They are able to invest themselves completely in projects and people because they do not fear failure or rejection.
Of course they suffer hurt and
disappointment, but their setbacks neither damage nor diminish them.
Owing to their resilience,
they are open to growth experiences and meaningful relationships, are tolerant
of risk, quick to joy and delight, and are accepting and forgiving of
themselves and others.
Enjoy your day!
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